Domestic Violence

Who Are The Victims?

MOST VICTIMS ARE WOMEN.

· A large majority of all reported victims are women.

· Teen-aged, pregnant and elderly women are especially at risk.

CHILDREN CAN BE DIRECT OR INDIRECT VICTIMS.

· They may be battered themselves.

· They may be forced to see their parent battered in front of them.

· The batterer may use threats to harm them as a means of controlling the victim.

· They grow up seeing battery as the natural way for domestic partners to relate to each other.

· They grow up in an insecure environment filled with tension and violence.

TEENAGERS EXPERIENCE DATING VIOLENCE.

· Teenagers are just as vulnerable to relationship violence and it is just as dangerous.

· Teenagers may not seek help because they distrust adults.


DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CAN ALSO OCCUR IN GAY AND LESBIAN HOUSEHOLDS.

· Gay and lesbian relationships are not immune to the pattern of abusive and coercive behaviors that constitute domestic violence.

· Victims may not seek help because they fear that no one will believe that violence occurs in gay and lesbian relationships.

ELDERLY FAMILY MEMBERS CAN BE VICTIMS.

· They may be battered by their adult children or caretakers.

· They may be physically unable to defend themselves or escape from the abuse.

· They may be physically or mentally unable to report the abuse to anyone.

VICTIMS ARE NOT TO BLAME FOR THE VIOLENCE

· Studies have found no characteristic link between personality type and being a victim.

· Victims cannot stop the abuse by simply changing how they behave.

· Victims deserve to be safe from violence, regardless of age or sexual orientation.

 


CONTENTS

  • Now is the Time!
  • Where to Turn
  • What is Domestic Violence?
  • Don’t Believe These Domestic Violence Myths
  • Who are the Abusers?
  • Who are the Victims?
  • Breaking the Cycle of Violence
  • How to Help a Friend Who is a Domestic Violence Victim
  • How to Let Your Friends Help You
  • Safety Measures While You’re in an Abusive Relationship
  • Safety After You Have Left the Relationship
  • Your Personal Safety Plan
  • Recommended for Further Reading
  • National Information Centers